我的弟弟，今年19岁，中二辍学，暂时在我和妈妈的努力下，让他在间客家餐馆做事。
之前在他11至18岁期间，他骗我了我们不少钱，我们为他还了朋友不少钱。前前后后大约有10千之多了。至今他仍不明白他所作的一切是错的。
在2009年，爸爸去世了。这件事使我感觉很伤心，很突然。当时在吉隆坡的我，在一天早上我接着妈妈的电话说要我赶快回家。当时妈妈说爸爸的身体不是很好了。她要我马上回家。突发之间我愣了下来。傻傻呆呆地穿过头向manager请假。爸爸的逝世让我有发不出的伤心。想哭却哭不出来！
在葬礼，爸爸生前所最疼爱的弟弟，反而表态好似没什么。他朋友来了，他仍若无其事地走前招待他们。我看见了我感到很痛心。当时的我还觉得他应该会在这非常时刻清醒悔改。但是并不然。
刚才我们打了一架。因为他仍冥顽不灵，坚持着他的想法而不听我们的劝告。
现在他离家出走了。希望他在短期间不会回来。希望他在外能够想清楚。也希望他不会再继续替我们增加麻烦。

My brother, he is 19 year-old, he was been drop out of school at his form 2 year, at the moment he is working with a Hakka restaurant in our great effort.
In past days, in between his 11-18 year-old, he cheated us for money and we repaid to his friends. It is going to be more or less $10k. Now, he still doesn’t understand about what he had done was wrong.
In year 2009, dad passed away. This matter was upset, surprising me. I was in stayed in KL. One morning I received a call form mother she was requiring me to return home immediately. At the time mother claimed father doesn’t look well. So she wants me to back instantly. Suddenly I was stuck and request a leave with Manager.
At the funeral, the one that my father was used to spoiling of, he acted differently just like nothing happen to him. At his friend coming, he was still serving them as normal. I was felt extremely sad. Before I was still thinking he will repent. But he is not.
No longer ago we were fought for his consistency. He ran away from home. I hope he won’t return so soon. I hope he will aware and repent this time and hope he won’t continue giving us trouble.

为什么在我这么努力地建立信心旅途里，偏偏妈妈会是那最嫌弃我最看不起我的人呢？我觉得很伤心。
为什么唯一能给我精神支持的爸爸，那么快就离开我？当我不开心和难过时，还有谁能听我诉苦？
常常听见妈妈说为什么那女孩那么漂亮而她的男朋友却长得那样?我却为我自己感到很伤心。我想那我岂不是没资格交女朋友了？有很多时候，我没勇气去追求我所心爱的女孩。我怕我害了他们。也许如果我追求她，别人会想我不自量力。我根本就配不上人家。但我却很想交女朋友。但我又不敢行动。我很矛盾。也许这就是我的一生了吧！

A magnitude 6.9 earthquake, this natural tragic suffered numerous of people. Thousand life had been taken from this quake and this quake was also ruined numerous of family at separating one by one.
Why do god want to let it happen? Why do god created this kind of nature disaster? Why don't god just create a perfect place to us without any natural disaster, it is uncontrollable and unpredictable?
Is this a sign to all of us?

"Pray for those rescuers could continue freed more and more life who are trapped underground"

BLESSED SATISFACTION

At the early morning of today, i was awaken from sleeping by my brother. He told he was overslept so request me to send him to bus station immediately to take bus to travel about 34KM journey to reach his workplace. The first spoke to me after getting down to lower floor, hall, he claimed 'brother, it's so exhausting from this routing.'. I just realized that he is truly work hard at this job. I feel touched and satisfaction about the job and the move that i introduced and the decision i made from making him out of start his hawker life in his early age.

After we reached bus station, before he wants to get down from car. He requested me for RM5 to buy coffee. But at the time, i haven't small change. So i was given him a RM50 note. I was surprised. He told he goes to buy a coffee now to make change to me. Afterward he was also given me back the change as he took RM5. Before that i was still suspecting he will requests me for another RM20 as this was his normal practice. But to this time, I realized that he might be in changing himself. I was touched and satisfied.

From seeing his exhausted body moving toward bus, i feel sympathy about what we both himself and me strove because this is what we hope himself to be in making him to go back the right track with outlook for his future is brighter and potential.

I want to thank to my friends who concern me about leading my brother. This is as a result to see what he had done and strove for his better life.

想用苹果减肥的，你可以从一个星期实行一天开始，等习惯以后，再增加到两天、三天。不习惯的人，最好不要超过三天，以免中枢神经功能失调，反而会在减肥后暴饮暴食，变得比减肥前还胖。

　　苹果减肥的方法

　　①连续三天只吃苹果，不吃其他水果和食物。

　　②你可以按照三餐的时间吃苹果，或是肚子饿就吃，吃饱为止。

　　③不管什么种类的苹果都可以，不过，最好是红苹果。青苹果比较酸，怕会刺激肠胃。

　　④苹果要吃新鲜的，而且要洗净削皮，避免农药残存。

　　⑤在这三天内，口渴时，你可以喝开水或没有刺激性的茶水，例如薄荷茶、麦茶、红花茶、鱼腥草茶等。

　　⑥减肥期间，你的肠胃会很敏感，所以要避免喝有咖啡因的饮料，例如红茶、咖啡、绿茶、乌龙茶等，以免肠胃不适。

　　⑦在苹果减肥期间，如果出现便秘问题，可以在第三天晚上，喝一两汤匙的橄榄油润肠，促进体内积蓄的毒素排泄。

　　三天后的饮食要点

　　三天的苹果减肥结束后，因为远离了刺激性食物，所以你的肠胃会很柔嫩，味觉也很敏感，而且胃会变小。

　　第四天开始，你的饮食要慢慢恢复，不能一下子就吃很多食物，尤其不要吃零食。恢复饮食的头三天，最好先从吃粥、吃豆腐等开始。

　　总之，减肥后恢复饮食时，食物要清淡而且不要过量，这样一来，减肥的效果才会持续。苹果减肥等于身体消化系统的大扫除。如果你真的很胖，想要做一次苹果减肥就恢复身材是不可能的。最好每一两个月就进行一次，直到减至理想体重为止。

　　苹果能减肥的5大理由

　　①因为食物摄取量减少，所以肠胃等消化器官得以休养。

　　②苹果减肥提高了肾脏或肠胃功能，排出体内废气，净化血液，身体也变得更健康。

　　③苹果减肥使人体摄入的热量减少，不足部分就需要体内积蓄的热量供给。体内的多余脂肪消耗掉，人自然会变瘦。

　　④肥胖者几乎都是因过食而使胃部扩张，无法控制食欲。苹果减肥法能使胃部收缩，减肥后食欲变得容易控制，而且味觉变正常，不会喜欢刺激性食物或油腻食物。

　　⑤苹果减肥可以促进血液内白血球的生成，提高人体的抵抗力和免疫力，同时促进神经和内分泌功能，有助美容养颜。

请教

有时候真的不知该怎么体谅一个人。他的所作所为又让我们很伤心。我们付出了很多。但他却不是很珍惜。
我想尽了方法来引起他对学习的态度。就是引不起他对学习的兴趣。因此我觉得他一开始慢慢退化了。我该如何是好？我该怎么做才能引起他的学习兴趣？
我又该怎么察觉他还有没吸些不该吸的东西呢？表面上他很听我话。我要他戒，他愿意戒。但有时又被我抓着他在吸那烟和另种东西。当时他感到惊讶和害怕。我却很失望的对着他责问他。他说一种，他已停了。烟而少了很多。我明白烟要戒，是需要时间。只是我无法时时刻刻监视着他。所以我必须有这强硬的方法来对待他。是不是我错了？

请大家给点意见。让我能有更好的办法来教好我弟弟。

谢谢你们

good friday

Good Friday is the day to commemorate the the passion, or suffering, and death on the cross of the Lord, Jesus Christ.

I feel wanna to go Church to take part the prayers together with Pastor and Brothers Sisters. But it had been couple of months that i didn't join the worship and pray to god. I feel very bad.

Hope god would give me some signs of leading me back to church back to him.